got a charger, had to make an adapter, ended up with reverse polarity because the factory wired part was wired backwards
apparently airsoft and RC both use mini tamiya connectors, but they swap polarity
if I had a cheaper charger, i'd be without a house now
fixed the configuration (mad lad i bought it from on eBay really messed it up, pitch and roll was swapped, and everything was either full on or full off) but now the battery ran out